As children in different stages of our youth (early childhood,
grade school age, and adolescence) we all had different tastes in different pop
culture and entertainment. When we were babies and small children, about ages 3
– 5*, we loved pretty much the same movies and TV shows, such as “Barney and
Friends”, “Sesame Street”, Teletubbies” and “Blue’s Clues”. And as we got
older, by around 6, our tastes split up as we discovered our personalities and
differences. Some of us watched Cartoon Network, such as “The PowerPuff Girls”,
“Scooby Doo”, “Dexter’s Laboratory” and “Codename: Kids Next Door”. Some of us
enjoyed Nickelodeon and their programs, such as “Rugrats” “Spongebob SquarePants”
“The Fairly Odd Parents” and “Danny Phantom”. Some loved Disney Channel and
their shows, like “Lizzie McGuire”, “Hannah Montana”, “Kim Possible” and “Phineas
and Ferb”. And others mixed and matched channels.
By about 10 – 11, some kids might find those shows childish
and watch to move on to older shows, which can be an issue as many are too inappropriate
for children. Tweens might be a common time for kids to get attracted to unsuitable
content (or at least was when I was that age). It’s probably gotten younger
over the years as society changed kids’ tastes and how quickly their favors
matured. But there probably is and never will be an average age a kid gets
attracted to stuff that’s too inappropriate from them and adults have to stop
them. It likely varies a lot from as early as 2.5 – 3 years old and as late as
young teens. But that’s another topic.
By early teens, 13 – 14, depending on their parents or
guardians’ rules, some may outgrow all kids shows as they are ready for PG-13
content, such as occasional swearing. At 15 – 17, a kid may be interested in R-rated
movies. Parents might deny the film them at the younger end of that range. By 18,
they’re ready for a purely mature taste in entertainment.
But that’s just an example based on psychological development
as well as the individual’s environment and taught mindsets. In fact, many kids
and adults do not follow that expected standard. I most definitely didn’t want
to. Sometimes, I got to follow my tastes my way. But that was more recently in my
In fact, during my youth, I was constantly being judged by
others. Worse, I was being pressured to “grow up.” As early as 10, I was taught
that I was too old for family-appropriate movies. For instance, I was 10 when I
saw the movie “Home on the Range” in the theaters. Six months later, I wanted
to get it on DVD. But my mom was shocked and said I was too old. I was in sixth
grade then, and I was really annoyed. She was treating like it was geared
toward early childhood and was as young as “Teletubbies”. At 11, I was told I
was too old for “Rugrats” (the spin-off didn’t matter in this case). At 12, I
was told I was too big for Waffle Boy games (based of the Waffle Crisp cereal)
and “The Fairly Odd Parents”. At 13, I was told I was too old for “Happy Feet”
and “Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone” – the film.
For years I would believe that. I would even avoid many
Disney movies because I was “too big”. It wasn’t until young adulthood I
revisited my childhood cartoons and stopped considering myself too old for them.
I wish I didn’t have to live with that insecurity for years. I would either avoid
them like the plague, or watch them secretly, but insecurely. But I never
should’ve had to.
In fact, many of my peers then enjoyed clean TV shows and
movies such as anime and even Nick JR. I’m not kidding. Because of what I was
taught, I would tell other kids they were too old for shows like “Dora the Explorer”.
They were unhappy.
If only my family had empathized with me and understood that
I did NOT choose to like the “childish” entertainment forms. Instead, they
treated it like it was at least as bad as watching something inappropriate. It
While there are negative psychological effects if a young
person watches something inappropriate, there is nothing for watching something
you’re “too old” for. Yes, children need to be taught what behaviors they are too big for. But they should get to watch what
they love as long as it’s appropriate. And adults can watch anything, including
It’s okay to love something that others believe are geared
toward younger children. Just because something is clean and has no mature
content, that doesn’t mean it’s only for little kids. Older kids and adults
deserve the right to watch what appeals to them.
You should be able to watch something, regardless of rating or cleanliness, with no problem—with 100% confidence. Don’t let others judge you. In fact, I wish I had never been judged the way I was. For instance, I used to keep it secret from my peers in middle school that I liked “Danny Phantom” because I was constantly judged.
Now, with the exception of Disney, if I want to watch a family-friendly
show or film, I go into another room and keep the volume low (this is only if I’m
home). If someone comes inside, I pause the video and turn the device away from
the other person. And I don’t like it. I want to be confident with watching a
clean movie or TV show without someone criticizing me.
Don’t be afraid to walk into a bar with a “Mickey Mouse” shirt.
Don’t be afraid to go into a casino with a “Shrek” tattoo in a visible area. It’s
all right to love “The PowerPuff Girls” at 25 (my current age). It’s fine to
love “The Fairly Odd Parents” at 30. And it’s more than acceptable to be passionate
about “Shrek” at 60.
I am abandoning all the pressures to outgrow my likes for
clean entertainment. But it’s very difficult and is going slow. It might take
several years. Hopefully, it doesn’t. I am never too old for what I like. The only
exceptions are stuff like “Barney” and “Teletubbies”, where there is little to
no conflict and problems are resolved in a mild cute way. Those shows were definitely
intended for early childhood.
And here’s a bonus fact: many “kid’s” TV shows and movies
have jokes or references that only adults could get. “Bee Movie” is an example.
So remember, love what you love. Don’t be insecure. Don’t
let others judge you. Don’t force yourself to stop enjoying something because people
say you’re too old. Be who you want to be. And most importantly, who you are.
*This varies a lot, especially in recent years. It’s just an
estimate. No two children of the same age are alike in their entertainment